A month ago I took on a well being challenge. The idea was pretty simple. I planed to use the first 10 minutes of every day to practice the asian squat. My goal was to be able to sit comfortably for at least 5 minutes. At the end of the day I had to answer two questions: What are the 3 things that went well today? And was was my role in them. Like in physical training, answering the same questions every day was a way to use repetitive action to strengthen my ability to confront the “negativity bias”. It was suppose to be a fun challenge An achievable start. A way to incorporate healthy and supportive habits to my daily routine. When I started this challenge, I thought that it would be a piece of cake for me. As it turns out, it was much harder than what I expected.
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A Month of Well-Being: The Challenge of the Asian Squat and Gratitude
The Challenge: 10 Minutes for Body and Mind
A month ago, I embarked on a simple but meaningful well-being challenge. The concept seemed straightforward: dedicate the first 10 minutes of each day to practicing the Asian squat. My goal was to eventually sit comfortably in this position for at least 5 minutes. To complement the physical practice, I also decided to end each day by reflecting on two key questions:
1. What are three things that went well today?
2. What was my role in making them happen?
The idea was to integrate small but impactful habits into my routine, improving not only my physical health but also my mental resilience.
The Inspiration Behind the Challenge
The Asian squat is more than just a posture; it’s a functional position that promotes mobility, strength, and flexibility in the lower body. It’s a position many in the Western world find surprisingly difficult, largely due to prolonged sitting habits and limited range of motion. On the mental side, confronting the “negativity bias” – our tendency to focus on negative experiences over positive ones – was another goal. The repetitive act of reflecting on positive outcomes each day was meant to rewire my perspective toward gratitude and self-awareness.
An Unexpected Difficulty
When I began this challenge, I thought it would be easy. Sitting in a squat for a few minutes and answering two questions at night seemed manageable. However, as the days went by, I quickly realized how difficult it was, both physically and mentally.
The Physical Struggle
• Mobility Issues: My ankles and hips felt stiff, making it hard to balance in the squat position without discomfort.
• Muscle Fatigue: Holding the position, even for a few seconds, was far more taxing than I anticipated.
• Progress Was Slow: While I expected steady improvement, some days felt like I was starting from scratch.
The Mental Challenge
• Facing Negativity Bias: Reflecting on positive outcomes seemed easy at first, but it quickly became a mental workout. Some days, I struggled to identify what went well or recognize my role in those moments.
• Consistency: Ending each day with reflection required discipline, especially on challenging days when negativity loomed larger than gratitude.
What I Learned from the Experience
Despite the difficulties, the challenge taught me valuable lessons about persistence, self-compassion, and the power of small, intentional habits.
Physical Takeaways
• Progress Over Perfection: Even though I didn’t master the Asian squat, I noticed gradual improvements in my flexibility and posture. Small gains, like holding the position for a few extra seconds, felt like significant victories.
• The Importance of Mobility: This challenge highlighted how critical mobility is for overall well-being and how easily it can be neglected in modern lifestyles.
Mental Takeaways
• Gratitude Requires Effort: Shifting focus from negativity to positivity isn’t automatic; it’s a skill that requires practice. Answering the same two questions daily helped me strengthen this muscle.
• Self-Awareness Grows with Repetition: Reflecting on my role in positive outcomes forced me to acknowledge my contributions, fostering a sense of agency and empowerment.
The Surprises Along the Way
• Emotional Impact: While the challenge started as a physical endeavor, it became deeply emotional. Recognizing my role in positive outcomes helped counter self-doubt and build confidence.
• Community Support: Sharing my progress with friends led to unexpected encouragement and even inspired some of them to try similar challenges.
The Power of Small Habits
This challenge reinforced the idea that small, consistent actions can lead to meaningful change. Whether it’s a physical practice like the Asian squat or a mental one like gratitude journaling, the key lies in persistence and patience.
What’s Next?
Having completed this month-long challenge, I’m motivated to continue incorporating these habits into my routine. Moving forward, I plan to:
• Expand Mobility Work: Include more exercises to improve flexibility and joint health.
• Deepen Reflection: Add more nuanced questions to my evening reflections, such as exploring challenges and lessons learned.
• Explore New Challenges: Use this experience as a foundation for other well-being experiments, blending physical and mental practices.
Final Thoughts: The Value of Intentional Challenges
What started as a seemingly simple challenge turned out to be far more transformative than I imagined. It wasn’t just about learning to squat or practicing gratitude; it was about confronting my own limitations, embracing discomfort, and celebrating small wins along the way.
This experience reminded me that growth often happens in the struggle, and even small steps forward can lead to significant change. If you’re looking to enhance your well-being, I encourage you to take on a challenge—no matter how small—and see where it leads. You might be surprised by what you learn about yourself.